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ABCD of Mind Management
Introduction
Swami replied, "Yes, for you, you have Sai. You will pray
to Him and get any work done by Him. But whom shall I call? I have no Sai. I am
anath!" This statement throws revealing light on
the working of the Avatar. He does not use His immense powers for Himself or
for His work. He lives and works like a human for all practical purposes. He
sets an ideal example for mankind to follow. All His powers are utilised
totally selflessly for the sake of others. Pure, selfless and infinite love is
His hallmark. The path of the Avatar is the path of true love or Prema Yoga.
Nay, His life is itself Prema Yoga!
(Source: Sri Sathya Sai Divya Kripasraya, p214)
Guidelines for Mind Control
Sri B.N. Narasimha Murthy, Warden of the Hostel, Sri Sathya Sai Institute of Higher
Learning, Brindavan Campus has written of the activities and disciplines which
he followed during his life. These disciplines and practices
Sri Narasimha Murthy took up as a young man, whilst teaching at the Loka Seva
Vrinda, in Alike and Muddenahalli, when he was a member of staff of this
institution. He has continued these disciplines during his service as Warden
of the Hostel at Prashanti Nilayam and Brindavan.
In the epilogue to his autobiography, Sri Sathya Sai
Divya Kripasraya (Under the Umbrella of Divine Grace of Sathya
Sai), Narasimha Murthy offers these words for spiritual seekers, especially the youth among them:
- A healthy and strong body is important for spiritual progress. One has to
build up the body and maintain it well with regular exercises, healthy eating
habits and by avoiding any bad habits that may weaken the body. All habits that
weaken the body will weaken the mind also.
- Moderation in food, sleep and activity helps one progress on the path.
Extremes should be always avoided. 'Middle path' is the golden mean in one's
life.
- Sense control is not repression of the senses; it is the capacity to
utilise the senses in right activity in a desirable way that helps one's
progress. Getting immersed in any beneficial work is a good way to control the
senses.
- Developing and intensifying one's feeling of devotion to God is most
important for anyone. Seeking out a lonely place and crying for God at least
once in a day is the best catalyst on the path. Constant namasmarana and prayer
are very helpful even if there is no emotion backing the act. Doing namasmarana
and prayer constantly, even mechanically is better than not doing them at all.
Of course, the best way is to do it with deep feeling of devotion.
- Study of the lives of great devotees and saints, listening to devotional
music and spending some time on the lap of nature enjoying the beauty of
creation help in intensifying one's devotion.
- Swami says, "Where there is faith, there is love. Where there is
love, there is peace. Where there is peace, there is bliss. Where there is
bliss, there is God." This is the simplest formula for one's spiritual
progress. Strong faith is the foundation of spiritual life.
- The best way to get rid of any desire is to replace it with a higher
desire. The decision as to which is lower and which is higher depends on one's
stage of evolution. For example, the desire to have a good-looking body is a
higher desire for a drug addict where as it is not so for a serious aspirant.
Similarly, any worldly ambition may spur on a young man to get over bad habits
but such an ambition will come in the way of earnest spiritual pursuit. Of
course, the highest desire is the desire for God and ultimately one has to
replace all other desires with desire for God.
- The best way to control the mind is to keep it happy. Despair and despondency
have to be always avoided. There is no doubt that only intense spiritual
happiness can purge the mind of its obsession with sensual cravings. But it is
not possible for a beginner to keep the mind at the highest level all the time.
There are five sources of happiness for human beings, the lowest being
indulgence in sensual pleasures and the highest being experience of the Self.
In between these two, there are three more sources of happiness for man. The
first among them is the higher physical happiness derived out of physical
culture, sports, athletics and games. The second is the emotional happiness,
which comes out of study of good literature, enjoying the beauty of Nature or
listening to good music. To love others and being loved by others ensures great
emotional happiness. Getting absorbed in creative activity also gives deep
emotional happiness. The third is the intellectual happiness, which comes from
serious pursuit of study and research in subjects like philosophy, science,
mathematics, commerce, history or any subject of one's interest. Also there are
some simple and harmless hobbies and pleasures that keep the mind away from
sadness and despair. But ultimately one has to learn the techniques of deriving
spiritual joy for complete control of the mind.
- Generally people have many wrong notions as to how to assess one's
spiritual progress. But there are four interdependent yardsticks of true
progress. We can call them the A, B, C, D of spiritual progress:
A - Awareness of inner joy and selfless love
B - Balance of mind or equanimity
C - Control of senses or Ceiling on desires
D - Dedication to the welfare of the world
May He lead us to the final beatitude of Oneness with Him!
Jai Sai Ram!
Source: Sri Sathya Sai Divya Kripasraya, pp 333-336
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