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Ladies Spiritual Upliftment Plan

Swami in His Ladies Day Discourses has emphasised that women play a pivotal role in the family and if the women lead a more spiritual life it will have a flow-on effect on the family. Many when attempting to change their way of life for the better, had difficulties, as they were on their own without support. The proposed Spiritual plan attempts to pursue this as a group exercise.

Objective

The objective of this exercise is to set a plan in place to assist the ladies in their spiritual development. Some ladies find it hard to take out personal time for their own needs and we hope that by putting a structured plan in place, we should be able to better incorporate these activities into our daily life, thereby elevating us spiritually by paving a stable path on which we can walk confidently and courageously. The program will also help keep alive constant awareness that the purpose of us coming to Sai (as our Spiritual Teacher) and the Sai Organisation is for self-transformation.

The focus of this program is on personal transformation through disciplines practiced primarily outside of group activities within the Centre.

At the end of the exercise, we will visit Prashanti to get Swamis grace and blessing that we continue to progress on our spiritual journey.

The visit will be at National level for solidarity and to unite the ladies of Australia as a Nation.

What will be more important than the visit to Prashanti is the nine months period preceding the visit where we work on our spiritual development step by step. This will not only develop us individually, but will also flow on to other people around us, especially in the home.

Background

This plan has been adopted from the Spiritual Plan recently issued by the National Spiritual Wing coordinator and the Young Adults plan.

The Charter states that 'every member of the Organisation must undertake sadhana (spiritual discipline) as an integral part of his daily life and abide by the (nine point) Code of Conduct'.

The following six points in the Code of Conduct present themselves as especially suitable for personal Spiritual Practice. These are:

  1. Daily meditation and prayer
  2. Participation in community service and other programs of the Organisation.
  3. Regular study of Sai literature.
  4. Putting into practice the principle of "Ceiling on Desires" and utilise any savings thereby generated for the service of mankind.
  5. Speaking softly and lovingly with everyone.
  6. Avoiding talking ill of others especially in their absence.

Although the Charter, given by Swami Himself, is expecting us to do all nine, it is reasonable to make a sustained effort on a lesser number with the goal of doing all eventually.

Remember, Swami provided the codes and they are there for our spiritual development. Therefore, to maximise our benefits from being in the Organisation, it seems logical that we follow Swami's guidance.

Plan

The emphasis is on practice - Practical Spirituality. Each code has a set of suggested action plan/goals that can be undertaken by participants for their individual practice on a needs/preference basis. But be creative. Individuals may decide on other ways of achieving the best results. After practising the first code for a month, the second ode is to be added to your plan. Therefore in the second month, codes 1 and 2 are to be practiced together and in third month another code is added on. By month 7, we will be practising all of the 6 codes.

A record sheet is provided at the end of this handout to allow individuals to document their progress and experiences. This is a form of self-audit; a very useful aid in spiritual development. It is recommended that the record be used from the start, as it is a good habit to record achievements on paper rather than rely upon our fallible memories.

We suggest that a buddy system be put in place to share the experience and to provide mutual support and assistance. You can nominate your own buddy or seek assistance from your centre/zone coordinator.

Please give your names to your centre convenors/zone coordinators who will provide support and encouragement as we progress in the plan.

Action Plan



Month 1

Daily Meditation and Prayers

Many members might have already been practising daily meditation and prayers. Please continue your practice in the manner that you are most comfortable.
It is recommended that everyone endeavour to practice 20 minutes of daily meditation and prayers. You can choose to meditate at any convenient time but it should be consistent by meditating at the same time every day. The 20 minutes meditation can be: 5 minutes chanting (your favourite name of God, Gayatri, So Hum, or other mantras), or prayers followed by 15 to 20 minutes of Light Meditation.

In regard to meditation:
  • The Light Meditation (Joythi) is recommended by Swami as the safest and best form of meditation to undertake.
  • Chanting the name of God (Namasramana) is also promoted by Swami as a very powerful tool in self-transformation.
  • Picturing your preferred Form of God is useful in helping with chanting God's name
  • Soft, peaceful music may help calm the mind

Month 2

Participation in Community Service

Swami says that Selfless Service is the highest form of worship. He also makes it clear that the service we do is ultimately for our own sake. Naturally, we want to help others, but the real value of the service lies in what it does for us - provided we do it with the right approach and attitude. Selfless Service helps us to control and purify the mind, puts a ceiling on our desires, brings love into our lives and removes the ego. It also helps us become aware of the God within all, and win God's grace. Our attitude during a service activity determines whether the service helps us grow spiritually. Service performed with a sense of 'doer-ship', of pride or superiority may help the person we are serving, but it does not help us spiritually.
We suggest that we each adopt an elderly person/s in your family/ centre/or neighbourhood and call them once a week for a brief chat. OR engage in any service activity either at work or in the community you live in. eg
a. Visiting elderly people staying alone at home or in nursing homes;
b. Helping the elderly with their shopping, taking to doctors and other appointments;
c. Doing voluntary work with other community service organisations;
d. Assisting in schools (School aide or volunteer);
e. Help in adult literacy programs; and
f. Teaching English to non-English speakers etc.

Month 3

Regular Study of Sai Literature

It is important to read, and reflect on materials read.
Study any spiritual literature.

Start with 10 minutes per day and build the study/reading time to 30 minutes.

Month 4

Putting into practice the principle of "Ceiling on Desires" and utilise any savings thereby generated for the service of mankind.

In order to practice this dictate of Swami's, "Ceiling on Desires", it is essential to develop an understanding of why Sai included this within the Nine Point Code and also why He wants us to do this. Further as desires are too numerous, it is important for us to group them, to help us practice and also measure our efforts and progress. In essence this practice needs to be integrated into our daily lives, which is best achieved through paying attention to the thought processes, which precede our actions. If we reflect on our current habits, it may be easy to note that we do not place any limit on our desires (WANTS). This results in us being constantly engaged in efforts to satisfy these desires. This in turn leaves limited time for positive actions such as service to others, or self-reflection to achieve spiritual progress, which Sai expects of us.

Sai has said all desires start as a thought - when the initial thought occurs ask the following questions to determine whether to dismiss the thought or to pursue it further:
  • a. Is this thought/desire essential? Do I really need to satisfy it for my peace and happiness?
  • b. Will this thought/desire lead to an action that could hurt others?
  • c. Will this thought/desire get me closer to God?
  • d. Will this thought/desire serve the good of everyone in the broader community?
Swami has also said that the tongue is the most important sense organ to control and that if we can control it, then all the others will fall into line. So control of food and speech could be a priority area.
This code will be more of an individual thing as we all have different habits and desires.

Watch your existing habits to establish an area where you will reduce waste based on one of the following:
  1. Reduce waste of Time
  2. Reduce waste of Money
  3. Reduce waste of Energy/resources
  4. Reduce waste of Food
Establish what you'll do to put a ceiling on your chosen area.

Successfully manage to put a ceiling on one bad habit so that it is under your control. Then move on to the next bad habit.

Use the savings you've generated to help your fellow human beings or support a cause that you wish to support.

Month 5

Speaking softly and lovingly with everyone

The following are suggested as a means of developing this habit:
  • a. Visualise yourself talking to Sai;
  • b. Respond thoughtfully as opposed to reacting hastily (temper management);
  • c. Think before uttering a single word (a few seconds gap between stimuli and response);
  • d. Practice tolerance;
  • e. Talk should be of a positive nature;
  • f. Practice observing the POSITIVE attributes in others and yourself. First in thought, then in speech and ultimately in behaviour;
  • g. Inculcate and imbibe good qualities of others that you notice - have courage to give credit to those with good qualities without feeling inferior; and
  • h. Accept a mistake honestly. If in doubt, clarify without any pride and ego - same applies to those who respond.
Select a family member or workmate you would like to practice this on. Learn to observe silence before responding to this person. Keep a regular log of the number of times you shouted/ expressed anger/ were rude or insensitive with this person.

Using your log as a guide, reflect on the reasons for your failure with a view to reduce the frequency of these failings by a significant amount. Be ready to select someone else.

Be aware of how you're expressing yourself with others.

Don't lose your internal cool at any time through interactions with others.

Month 6

Avoiding talking ill of others especially in their absence.

The following are suggested as a means of developing this habit:
  • a. If you need to complain or talk to someone - talk to Sai and He will not repeat it;
  • b. Always give time to analyse your thoughts before you open your mouth -discriminate;
  • c. Talk less and listen more - listening is a skill that requires practice and determination
  • d. Never give energy to negative talk/gossip - change the subject, ignore it or walk away;
  • e. Dedicate and hand over the problem to Sai when it gets too much for you;
  • f. Let go of the past (hurt, experience, bad habits etc) and restart on a positive note;
  • g. Never jump to conclusions, give others the benefit of the doubt, and reach out;
  • h. Cultivate good habits such as saying nice things, seeing good & expecting the best;
  • i. Develop a positive view of yourself, this helps to see the world in a positive way; and
  • j. Keep trying even if you fail - this can become your second nature with full commitment.
Not to be Judgemental

Select a person that you have difficulties with and would like to practice this on. Learn to observe silence when an opportunity to criticise this person arises. Let go of the past and give the benefit of doubt.

Keep regular log of the number of times you talked ill of this person. Using your log as a guide, reflect on the reasons for your failure with a view to reduce the frequency of these failings by a significant amount.

Cultivate habits of saying only nice things about others, seeing the good in others & expecting the best from others. Never give energy to negative talk/gossip - change the subject, ignore it or walk away from person talking ill. Be able to directly and politely tell the person if they need to improve their conduct or performance of a given task.

Month 7,8,9

Practice all of the above


Self Audit

You may download the Self Audit sheet.

Download the Ladies Spiritual Upliftment Plan document in MS Word format


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